Week-End Wedding Resources: May 29th, 2020
May, 29 2020
Hello there! We are back, with some useful information that might be helpful for you, our gorgeous bride-to-be. So, how has your journey been all this while? The one that started with disbelief, anger, and then turned into a heartbreak? Don’t you worry, we’re here and we understand your disappointment and those tears that still might be hiding in the corner of those beautiful eyes. We trust our beautiful brides to have taken it all in their stride. We know for sure that by now you have moved heaven and earth to make your wedding happen just how you wanted it to be! And while you are jumping over hoops, let’s remind you that these hurdles were not placed there by you. They happened due to an unforeseen event that has affected the entire world and was, well still is, totally out of your control. So, if you happen to blame yourself even a tad-bit, it’s a moot point. And it’s ok to feel sad, it’s totally justified.
The entire world is trying to come to terms with the fluidity of the ongoing pandemic and moving on with their lives. Things are going back to normalcy, with social distancing being the flavor of the year! It is dramatically shaping the future of this world. There are over millions of engaged couples who were planning for a 2020 spring-summer wedding. And as March knocked on our doors, no one imagined what it would have for us in store. As the worlds of many people came crumbling down, the brides and grooms-to-be had their own tales of woe that seemed minor as compared to what was happening all around in the entire world. With people losing their lives, elderlies confined to their homes, and not being able to meet their kids and grandkids, who are their only source of happiness in old age - it's a sad state of affairs. And weddings tend to take a backseat when the disastrous consequences of this global pandemic are being discussed. But, we totally understand what you and your fiance are going through. After months of discussions regarding your wedding’s color scheme, the theme that perfectly fits your style, finding those most appropriate favors for your loved ones (maybe even personalized ones), curating the most romantic song list for your slow dance and the fun tracks for everyone to shake a leg, and so much more, all of a sudden the time has come to a standstill. It feels just like 2 days back and 200 years ago at the same time. Those moments when you stood in front of the mirror and imagined yourself as a bride, posing for your wedding photographers, they seem so meaningless to you now. From how you imagined the decor and placement of every small thing at your wedding venue the moment you walked in, to how you imagined closing the day with spectacular post-wedding photography at an iconic location in the city - the thoughts are precious and we urge you to keep them running through your mind. After all, there’s a wedding to be planned!
So, when we said it’s ok to be sad, we meant only for a little while though! Don’t let it drown you. Leaving all the grief behind, we want you to plan on (and be excited about it!). There are so many things you could do right now, confined to your homes. From discussing and deciding about the fate of your wedding to actually having a wedding while being socially distant, there’s a lot you can do! Whether it’s mini-monies and virtual weddings being the saviors for engaged couples who are unstoppable (and how we love that!) or postponement of your wedding to a later and safer date, weddings are witnessing unprecedented trends this year. Doesn’t it feel like a Hollywood fiction movie? Only, this one’s real and is happening as you read. And we are all in this together. While you and your fiance are the protagonists, your vendors are the supporting cast, who are doing everything they can, to help you both reach your destination, in the most adventurous ways! And we join you as the supporting cast as we bring to you weekly inspiration and updates that can help you navigate the new adventures. It’s one heck of a ride, but it’s absolutely worth it!
Whether your wedding will now see the light of the day on a particular date that’s been decided or continues to remain wrapped in a blanket of uncertainty, here are some great resources that can help you proceed with your wedding planning during these times. Read on to learn more about them.
There are various scenarios that can encompass your guest list in these times, in case you are going ahead with a smaller wedding. One where the c-virus has led you to minimize your wedding guest list, or where your fresh wedding plans keeping in mind the circumstances and trends have made you more inclined to an intimate wedding, or where you are rescheduling your wedding with a smaller guest count. And as you send the wedding invites or change-the-date invites, you are likely to be faced by questions like ‘why haven’t I been invited?’ Well, there are better ways to tackle this rather than simply ignoring or being at a loss for words. Here’s how you can brilliantly answer questions like this with utmost graciousness!
Gracious Ways to Tell Someone That They're Not Invited to the Wedding
Via Martha Stewart Weddings
Just like you, beautiful, there are so many brides-to-be who are going through the same predicament. And at this point, we understand that what matters most is having someone who can simply listen to your woes, without being judgemental or a problem-solver. BRIDES brings to you ‘Change of Plans’ stories that are shared by various brides who are in the same situation as yours. Take a look for a familiar feel.
Via Brides
The date’s been finalized, the cake’s been ordered, invites have been sent, and butterflies have been rising! But before you say ‘I do’, why not virtually have a drink or two! You got that right, we absolutely mean with your besties! If you’re all set to have a wedding in the near future but are wary about your pre-wedding festivities, say hello to technology! Your bridal shower, bachelorette party, and even your bridal dress trial session can all be held over Zoom, Facetime, or other such platforms. Here’s how you can nail the perfect virtual bachelorette party to a tee! So, grab your bridal tribe and get going. After all, girls gotta do what girls gotta do!
How To Throw a Rad *Virtual* Bachelorette Party
Via Green Wedding Shoes
Wedding exits mark your transition from your singledom into the gorgeous world of marital bliss in a grand way! There are various occasions where you can have a wedding exit - as you come out of the ceremony venue to move to your reception venue, or as your wedding day ends opening doors to a new life together or both. Confused about what kind of wedding exit would be the most appropriate one for your wedding day? To ‘go-out-in-style’ check out these interesting wedding exit ideas to find the one that best suits your style as a couple. Well, you only get to do it once and you gotta do it right!
Going Out in Style With These Rad Wedding Exits
Via Green Wedding Shoes
As of now, the wedding vendors all over the world are swamped with worries, cancellations, postponements, and a forever need for adjustments. They are trying hard not only in making that dream wedding of yours come alive but also to survive in this industry. Their businesses, small or big, have been seriously impacted, and providing them with all the support that you can, will make their turbulent journey a bit worthwhile. If you’re wondering about the ways in which you can support them, click below to explore thirteen humble ways to do so.
13 Ways to Thank Your Supportive Vendors Right Now, According to Wedding Vendors
Via Brides
Having a socially-distant wedding, a virtual wedding, a minimony, or a grand wedding later, but the quarantined times are preventing you from shopping for your wedding favors? Or the online search for all your other wedding-related stuff has left you no time to prep yourself for the favors? Don’t worry, we’ve got your back like we always have. We bring to you an immaculate list curated by Ruffled, related to wedding favors that you can order from Amazon right away and check off one thing from your wedding checklist!
15 Wedding Favors You Can Order on Amazon
Via Ruffled
So that’s from our side this week. From your side, we simply expect you to remain calm and positive. Just remember, you and your soulmate are a perfect couple, however, you’re just not in the perfect situation. And things like love and weddings have a lot to do with timing, destiny, and what’s written in the stars. So let the time take its course and remember that although love has its fairytale moments, it isn’t always a fairytale or a storybook and it doesn’t always come easy. Love is overcoming obstacles, facing challenges, fighting to be together, holding on, and never letting go. It is a short word that’s just as easy to spell as it is difficult to define, but utterly impossible to live without. Love is realizing that every hour, every minute, and every second was worth it because you did it together. So, keep your hopes up and soon that day will be here when you’ll realize that your wedding was the best thing that you’ve ever waited for! And the wait was totally worth it, as it brought the two of you closer and even more eager to start your new life together! We’ll be there for you next week until then, keep slaying that bride-to-be glow!
